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To all girls who have doubt to your Boyfriend

I’m going to get right to the point. When you don’t know how to get a man to communicate openly and honestly with you at all times. It can seem impossible to move past the “guessing game” of dating or a casual relationship. But isn’t it the worst kind of pain when you find out after the fact that the man you’ve shared yourself with isn’t interested in a real future? Aaaarrrrgggggghhhh!

If you’re wanting to talk to a man, and you’re already feeling anxious, scared, and unsure of what to say and if you’re ever going to be able to get him to respond to you and open up… then there is no “solution” to solve your problem. None of the “right words” are going to make your situation better. Why? Because YOU are your own problem not the words you’re trying to find. If you call your man up and you need to talk to him and you tell him how you feel and that you wish he would open up to you.

This is what I can advice to you, to all the girls who have the doubts of your boyfriend. Let’s just say that I already encountered this situation and it really feels so bad not telling your emotions or feelings that you want to tell to your boyfriend. What I’m trying to say is that we have the freedom to be honest. And now, I was happy with my relationship to my boyfriend.

Thank God

Whenever summer break comes up, all I do is stay at home and sulk in bed. There’s really nothing to do and even no money to spend and hang out in malls. How pathetic!! but nah, I’m so used to it.. I’m not the type who goes out every single day, suffice to say, i find happiness in my own solace..!! You think that sulking in bed won’t ever do someone any good, well, think again. For in these times, I’m giving myself a break from all the stresses and pressures in life. It gives me time to think of what I did and how things have been going on in my life. It just gives me space from the oh-so-chaotic world and awards me with a clutter-free mind. I’ve practically been thinking and ruminating about who I’ve come to be right now. So many ingredients mixed to produce such complicated lady. If you call me a lady, that is. I don’t know if this is really what God wants me to be. But nevertheless, if He placed me here, then there must be something out of it. I know I’ve not been the good daughter, helpful sister and perfect friend that you all expect me to be or I think, should I say what I expect myself to be. As much as I want to please everyone around me, my actions and deeds doesn’t correspond to what I want to do. There’s always something that hinders me from doing those things or circumstances don’t permit me to do so. Sometimes, we are just in the wrong place at the wrong time but, oh, not with the wrong people, I guess. But it seems that being in that situation makes it right. For you see, it makes us understand that we are not here to live perfectly and we are not here to delight everyone.

As long as we don’t step on other people and disrespect their rights, we can do whatever we want to do. But of course, it’s always with limits. For as quoted in a song “too much of something is bad enough.” there are those individuals who judge people quickly without even knowing them, stereotyping, the worst of it. Or like judging someone with what he/she has done according to one source. But I must say that each one should know the other side of the coin. But I guess it isn’t always that easy, and you’ll just understand it when you’re faced with that situation. But I guess the most wonderful part of it is that even if many are thinking badly about you, the persons who truly understand you and accept you for who you are will never ever despise you. They may get angry, nag at you, point out your wrong but they will never ever condemn you and accept you with open arms. I’m just so thankful with the friends I’ve come to know, thank you for whenever I’m with you, I can always be myself, yes, I admit I sometimes do make facade. But I’m just human, one way or another all of us may do that. Thank you fro believing in my capabilities, skills and abilities. Big thanks for your listening ears and for all the laughter’s, tears, frowns and weary faces we’ve shared. You know who you are. Clues, anyone?! Nah, whatever happens, you will always have a special place in my heart.

Thank GOD for all the blessings, big and small. Most of all, thank God for giving me such a wonderful life, sugar and spice and everything nice.

Continue believing

All my life I hid myself from believing, and the dreams I kept w/n me, den I met you and realized that dreams do take form and for me they took the form of young reality, a person whose a combination of everything that I dreamed of and now whose become everything I believe in .Today and always. You have become d believe and the hope within me.

Things I’ve learned in friendship

I don’t need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better.

But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life, and thanks to a benevolent arrangement the greater part of life is sunshine.

..too bad I’ve been to a storm brought by a blood curdling liar friend..but it’s no biggie now.. real friends perfectly fit to make an old one out!

If I could change my name

Everybody thinks that I ain’t got any problems. FYI, I badly have… I can make the whole class laugh, I can make u smile even those paper works are getting on your nerves… But sometimes behind those silly things that’s very much easy for me to do, I have a very huge crisis. If I can make the whole world smile? How come it’s very much hard for me to make myself smile till I ain’t got any air to breathe? If only I made everyone to see me in a different way, maybe those smiles can be replaced by crazy lil’ tears from my lonely heart!

Where do you think would we fit in?

The way to discover real, satisfying answers about the ultimate purpose of our life is to ask our loving creator, God. God, in the bible explains that he created us and God loves his children just like the father. That the love He has for us has everything to do with how we live your life now, and our personal identity. It affects our friendship, our family relationship, our education and furthermore, our career. It makes all things worthwhile.

God tells us that he has created us to fulfill a great purpose. He wants us to develop the right character to be more like Him and His son. Jesus Christ. Patience, mercy, faith, kindness, gentleness, meekness, and self-restraint. Character involves knowledge, wisdom, ability and a sense of purpose, all properly controlled and developed. In the process, we learn what is right and wrong and learn to choose the right thing. as the saying goes, “Character is made by what you stand for; regulation by what you fall for.” Character is something that is developed only through experience. Experience requires time and circumstances. God created time and circumstances that produce character within us. He provides all the help we need. In other words our character traits, we become like God.

Does this mean our individual identity is swallowed up? No. God loves variety, and he created us with different talents. Our genetic make up and our backgrounds make us unique. God did not create a bunch of robots, and that’s what he wants. Choosing his way gives us an incredible identity and a tremendous meaning of our lives. Now, are we still confuse where we fit in this world? Well, dare to develop yourself into the happy and unique individual God wants us to be everything falls into place once our life has meaning.

For you to know

As usual. I want u 2 know how much I sincerely love the countless hours we spend talking. It mines so much 2 me. I fill like I’ve known u 4ever and I honestly can’t imagine life w/out You’re will be there no looking back, no second thoughts and no regrets. Sometime life grants you unexpected things that take u by surprise. All I can say is your d best surprise life has given me and your capacity for love, caring and understanding never ceases to amaze me. I’ve truly been blessed by finding you and I’ll never let you go… for you to know.

Life is random for me

They say life is somewhat complicated and unpredictable. It is indeed but it is because of our choices. We have our own freewill to do things and thus, we are responsible of whatever actions we take.

we may say that life is unpredictable because there are situations that we feel we are not going anywhere or shall we say there’s no longer hope and that we are in distress, desperate and yet along the way someone or something comes along to help us and make us realize that beyond the shadows of uncertainties, there is still a rainbow of hope. Unpredictable in a way that the least we expect things to take place, they happen either negatively or positively.

Life becomes complicated because of our own doings. These pertains to decisions we come up to just because we are being overpowered by our emotions without thinking that we could hurt others or our self as well. There could have been an easy way to dwell with; but sad to say, sometimes we choose to take our own.

along the process of discovering ourselves, we have to really be responsible enough because it is in our actions that speaks louder than any other outlet that we go through. seeking help and advice is one of the best thing to do. Instead of being alone, why not adhere ourselves to activities that enhances the best qualities and hidden talents that we have so that whatever problems that we may encounter, we still have other means not to take them seriously. And most of all, prayer is the best and most powerful tool to deal with our dilemmas. A positive outlook in life is one way to stay and look happy and young.

Unexpectedly

You came into my life unexpectedly,
and everything took a turn for the better.
Your warm eyes, your laugh,
the sincere way you speak,
and the kindness you showed me,
all became a part of my life.

As you unfolded yourself to me,
I discovered more and more beauty.
I have never seen so much
gentleness in one person.
Without even knowing it,
you were slowly making a place
for yourself in my heart.

It used to seem so hard at times
to feel so close in a relationship.
But it’s so easy to feel close to you.
I can’t tell you how nice that feels.
I realize now that I had never known
what it meant to be loved
until I was loved by you.

Might lead anywhere

A road might lead to anywhere to harder towns and grays or, to a witch is pointed house hidden by bristly trees.

It might lead past the tailors foot where he sews with needle and thread her by miss pim the millinet’s with her bats for every head.

It might be a road to a great, dark, cave with treasure and gold piled high or a road with a mountain tied to its end, blue humped against the sky.

Or, a road might lead you anywhere to Mexico or maine: But then, it might just fool you, and lead you back again.

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